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Scott Roeder, Focus on the Family and the Super Bowl

by Erin Matson, NOW Action Vice President

Let's be clear: Focus on the Family would not spend upwards of $2.5 million on an anti-abortion rights ad for the sole purpose of celebrating one woman's story.

Focus on the Family is pouring money into the Super Bowl in order to create a climate in which it's possible to overturn Roe v. Wade, which recognized women's fundamental right to abortion under the Constitution. The question is, short of pursuing political and/or judicial paths to end safe and legal abortion for the one of three women in this country who has them, just how far is Focus on the Family willing to go?

Too far. Far too far.

The 37th anniversary of the Roe decision took place just days after CBS violated its own policy of turning down socially controversial ads to accept Focus on the Family's anti-abortion rights spot (suspiciously, CBS would later announce a change in policy after accepting the ad). Jan. 22 was also the opening day of Scott Roeder's trial for the murder of Dr. George Tiller, an abortion provider in Wichita, Kansas. NOW, Feminist Majority, National Abortion Federation, and others tracking anti-abortion violence recognize Dr. Tiller's murder as domestic terrorism.

Taking the stand, Roeder would go on to explain in detail how frustrated he had grown with politicians who made promises but did not end legal abortion. Referring to Dr. Tiller, he said "I've been planning to kill him since 1999."

Outside the courthouse, anti-abortion rights extremist Randall Terry stood with three others protesting Roeder's trial. Their signs read: "GIVE ROEDER A FAIR TRIAL!" "ROEDER'S REASON: THE BABIES" and "TILLER KILLED 60,000 CHILDREN!!" The jury rejected these arguments and convicted Roeder of first-degree murder and two counts of aggravated assault on Jan. 29 after less than 40 minutes of deliberation.

On May 31, 2009, the day Roeder murdered Dr. Tiller in his own church, Randall Terry said, "George Tiller was a murderer … Those men and women who slaughter the unborn are murderers according to the Law of God. We must continue to expose them in our communities and peacefully protest them at their offices, their homes, and yes, even their churches."

What does this have to do with Focus on the Family (and, by extension, the Super Bowl)? Sadly, everything. Focus on the Family endorses some of Randall Terry's tactics, including illegally blocking clinic entrances, and justifies that in words virtually indistinguishable from those endorsing the murder of Dr. Tiller.

From Focus on the Family's Web site (these are the words of founder and chair emeritus Dr. James Dobson):

It is true that we Christians are instructed in Scripture to obey civil laws and those in authority over us. But we are also commanded to "rescue those being led away to death; hold back those staggering toward slaughter" (Proverbs 24:11). Remember, too, that the apostle Paul and other early Christian leaders disobeyed laws and orders requiring them to remain silent about the teachings of Jesus. There are other biblical examples of godly men and women, including Daniel in ancient Babylon, who refused to obey unjust laws that contradicted their beliefs. Obviously, there are times when we are expected to resist civil authority.

Applying that understanding of Scripture to the abortion movement, we must ask, "Is this such an occasion?" A better question is, Do we believe our own rhetoric about the unborn child? Are the abortionists killing babies or aren't they? If 1.5 million infants are being murdered in the United States every year, how can we stand around debating whether or not it is appropriate to oppose the laws that permit their slaughter?

To illustrate the point, suppose the euthanasia movement catches on in days ahead, making it legal for parents to decide whether or not they wish to continue raising their children. Suppose they could take any child under five years of age to a "Life Clinic," where the boy or girl could be put to sleep. Suppose children were walking in the front door of clinics and going out the back in coffins.

If such a horrible day ever dawned, what do you think the response of Christians would be? Would they thumb carefully through the pages of Scripture to find justification for their civil disobedience? Of course not! The moral issue would be so clear that trespassing to prevent the killing would be of no relevance. The murdering of innocent children would be so abhorrent to what we know of God's nature that many of us would give our lives to rescue the little ones. In a very real sense, we are confronted by that same issue today. We are killing babies, although we can't see them or wrap our arms around them.

I simply do not understand why some Christian leaders, whom I respect, continue to split hairs over subtle scriptural understandings, wondering whether there is a real difference between Daniel's civil disobedience and the insignificant act of trespassing by today's rescuers.

To those Christians who feel prohibited from stepping across a property line to save a baby, I would ask, How would you have responded to the slavery issue in the mid-1800s? Would you have harbored a runaway slave who sought sanctuary from his or her "master"? What would you have done as a citizen of Germany in World War II? The Nazi extermination camps were legal. Would you have broken your country's unjust laws in order to protect millions of people marked for death? Was Corrie ten Boom's father in violation of Scripture for protecting Jews from the murderers in the SS?

Certainly not! Nor are "rescue" participants in violation of any moral law, in my opinion. They seek to prevent violence against a powerless minority, and that is a principle supported throughout Scripture.

As far as its view on ending abortion rights is concerned, Focus on the Family is almost as extreme as it gets: going beyond legal strategies to endorse, even encourage, its followers to break the law in order to shut down women's health clinics that offer abortion.

The $2+ million Super Bowl ad is just a new tactic in Focus on the Family's longstanding campaign. While purporting to show the softer side of Focus on the Family, in fact this ad's big idea is to declare that women who have an abortion are guilty of a terrible mistake -- a statement that is rarely true, given those women's opinions.

Is NOW against one woman's fully informed, freely chosen family planning decision? Absolutely not. NOW fights for every woman to have access to comprehensive resources that support her own reproductive decisions, whatever they may be. Focus on the Family is fighting against that principle with this ad.

Is NOW anti-free speech or promoting censorship? Absolutely not. We came out in protest of this ad when it was a clear cut-and-dry case of CBS violating its own policy. And, regardless of the about-face new policy CBS announced after we first began our protest, we still believe this ad should be pulled. CBS has already rejected multiple ads for Super Bowl Sunday.

Please let CBS know you don't want an extremist organization like Focus on the Family coming into your living room this Sunday in an attempt to undermine abortion rights.

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Comment from: innam [Member] Email
Enough is enough! It is time for women to organize and use their joint power - buying power. Spread the news to friends and colleagues - let everyone know, especially the media, that women are going to be watching the Super Bowl on CBS to get the names of all the CORPORATIONS RUNNING ADS ON CBS DURING SUPER BOWL and that WOMEN ARE GOING TO BOYCOTT THEIR PRODUCTS!!!! Money talks to money - so let those corporations pressure CBS to remove the anti-abortion ad!!!!! It is time for women to join together and use our power to make the changes we need!
02/02/10 @ 21:37
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Comment from: mary [Member] Email
I believe in choice, and I'm happy if you have an abortion and it works out for you. I'm also happy if you have a child, and it works out for you. HOWEVER, if I have to pay for any person's abortion with my tax dollars, then I'm for overturning Roe v. Wade!! I think the democrats have brought this issue on themselves by trying to force taxpayers to pay for an elective procedure like abortion.
02/03/10 @ 00:15
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Comment from: klyndaker [Member] Email
You know, this site keeps talking about CHOICE, right? Yet you are discriminating against the CHOICE of many others....CBS has a CHOICE to run the ad, Pam Tebow had a CHOICE, and Tim Tebow has a CHOICE to stand up for HIS beliefs! Just because you disagree with what someone else believes doesn't give you the right to say they can't run an ad about it! Certainly, you don't feel anyone should tell you how to believe or what you can say. Therefore, what gives you the right to do the same? Let me be clear, I do not endorse violent acts no matter the disagreement. As a society, we want pro-athletes to be better role models for our kids, yet when one arises (like Tim Tebow) we want to boycott HIS CHOICE! If you don't like the ad, then simply don't watch it. There are plenty of ads running out there promoting things I don't believe in, but you don't see me accusing anyone of undermining my belief system. Just like your organization has the right, under the constitution, to express their thoughts, so does everyone else!
02/03/10 @ 13:31
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Comment from: jenrobinson [Member] Email · http://pinellasnow.weebly.com
Erin,
Thank you for your informative and poignant post. The quotes from Dobson and Focus on the Family are frightening, indeed. If people believe that forcing their so-called Biblical views (ie, hatred of women), onto the population, and forcing women to have unwanted pregnancies, is about their "choice", they are fools. Klyndaker, there is a big difference between a person making a personal decision and laying out legal framework to force all women to do the same thing with their own bodies whether they like it or not. The goal of this ad is not to talk about Tim Tebow and his mom. Anybody who thinks it is less than an outright attack on women's reproductive freedom in the United States, and on women at large, is an imbecile who doesn't understand the way the world works.
02/03/10 @ 17:18
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Comment from: klyndaker [Member] Email
JenRobinson, I think it's very interesting that you feel you can call someone "an imbecile" simply because their view isn't what you think is "right". I believe this shows a complete lack of understanding and having an open mind for others opinions. My comment made no mention of forcing women to do anything. I simply stated that just as you have a right to your own thoughts and choices, so does everyone else. Also, saying that someone standing up for the rights of an unborn child “hates women” is also closed-minded. Again, I never said my belief was to force women to do anything, but like Mary said, I don’t feel my tax dollars should pay for another’s choice to not carry through with her pregnancy. On a side note, many women "choose" to have sex without proper protection and then decide to have an abortion. Why not just use the protection and never suffer through the procedure at all? I am certainly not saying there aren't women who are violated and it results in a pregnancy or other uncontrollable factors...I am talking about those that do not use protection that is easily accessible to prevent what they never wanted in the first place. Saying this ad has nothing to do with Tim Tebow is naive. It has everything to do with him because he is standing up for his beliefs and others are trying to censure it. If I’m not mistaken, this website strives to give women a voice, so why are you trying to stifle someone else’s because you don’t agree with it???
02/03/10 @ 20:58
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Comment from: innam [Member] Email
It's wonderful to have a dialogue so people can share their beliefs.

I guess I never saw an abortion as an "elective surgery", like elective cosmetic surgery...tummy tucks...augmented breasts..liposuction. I believe there are surgeries that without, lead to nightmare life situations and horrific living conditions for individuals and families. And, Mary, wouldn't it be interesting to find out how much of our taxpayers' monies go to supplying Viagra. Does anyone have those stats? .
And if we aren't looking at reasons for, or consequences without, wouldn't all penile implants perhaps be considered "elective surgery"? Should taxpayers not pay for this "elective surgery" for many of our injured soldiers?
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Let's examine this situation with eyes wide open and without naivete'. What is the AGENDA behind running an anti-abortion ad to a predominantly male audience? If Mr. Tebow just wants to share his story - there are many other ways to get that story out to people. What is the agenda of the organization who created the ad specifically for this event and willingly paid an exorbitant fee to show it? Yes, I agree with you. Focus on Families has a choice, CBS has a choice, Tim Tebow has a choice... and women who need an abortion should continue to have A CHOICE as well. And... women who feel it is inappropriate for CBS to run such an ad during Super Bowl have the choice where they want to take their business and future viewing....For me and many others, it won't be CBS, nor will it be the corporations advertising during the Super Bowl!
02/03/10 @ 21:08
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Comment from: Erin Matson, NOW Action Vice President [Member] Email
JenRobinson and innam, I suspect you will find this interesting as I do. Just yesterday Ryan Dobson (son of Focus on the Family founder Dr. James Dobson, also quite active in the group himself) was quoted in a front page article in the New York Times:

"The man should be the overall leader of the household. We've raised a generation of little boys."

That generation reference quite pointedly evokes those who came of age after feminism changed everything. Not a big surprise, coming from the source it did.

Interestingly, this article is about a growing group of evangelical pastors who train men to be ultimate fighters:

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/02/us/02fight.html
02/03/10 @ 22:35
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Comment from: jen olsson [Member] Email
Roeder goes away for a long long time for killing Dr. Tiller. Roeder is not a hero, he is a murderer as much as Dr. Tiller was. But by law, Dr. Tiller was protected, he was unarmed, and Roeder did not show compassion for life when he shot and killed Dr. Tiller.
But as far as comments such as the following...."Please let CBS know you don't want an extremist organization like Focus on the Family coming into your living room this Sunday in an attempt to undermine abortion rights." CBS is the media and is following the law as to freedom of speech. They have as much right to telling their story as you think you do.
02/04/10 @ 02:59
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Comment from: ocon59 [Member] Email
Free & open discussion is essential. What I find interesting is that NOW doesn't want to listen to anyone but themselves. Hate to break it to you NOW, but being a liberated woman doesn't mean following or believing in what your leftist organization tells a woman to believe in. It's being your own person, an independent thinker.

The Tebow story is a great story about a WOMAN who made a CHOICE. HER CHOICE. I also find it disheartening that so many people talk about a woman's choice, her right to do whatever she wants with her body. That sounds great, but when a woman gets pregnant, IN HER BODY is ANOTHER BODY. People argue about when life begins. Well, you can delude yourself into thinking it's at 12 weeks or 8 weeks or whatever, but it's at conception. Think about it, what else would those little cells grow into...it's human life you are destroying.

On this web site (top of this page) they state that 1 in 3 women has an abortion in the US. Doesn't that statistic bother anyone else? Even if you are pro-choice that should bother you. I'm not talking about the ones that are out of a woman's or young girl's control (incest, rape...) 1 out of 3 tells me that we are not getting the word out about prevention, or what I suspect is more the case, is that we are just teaching young women to abort. "It's easier - you don't need that in your life - it would ruin your life - you aren't ready" Well, if they're ready to have sex, and they made the CHOICE to have sex, then they need to take responsibility for their actions.

Does anybody in our society want to take responsibility for any of their actions any more, or does everyone want the government to just take care of them?

The Tebow's took responsibility for their actions and believed in God. I say AMEN SISTER!
02/07/10 @ 13:08
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Comment from: ahs [Member] Email
Why is NOW so worried about the Tim Tebow ad? I would think that anyone watching this ad would find it uplifting. It is a celebration of the life and future potential of a young man, alive today because his mother made a tough choice years ago. NOW promotes "choice" and "reproductive freedom" for all women. Certainly this includes Mrs. Tebow's right to choose to continue a difficult pregnancy, and thus, give birth to an accomplished son. Perhaps NOW is concerned that some pro-choice women may reconsider their position.

Regarding the comments on Focus on the Family, this organization does not hate women or think men are superior to women. From a biblical perspective the man is considered the head of the household, responsible for caring for the family and leading its religious development. However, he is directed to consider the woman as an equal partner in the relationship.

Many people believe that abortion is a constitutional right. As a Christian I believe that life begins at conception, so that abortion is the murder of a helpless child. As a nurse practitioner I care for many women, providing women's health services. I counsel many girls and women regarding reproductive issues, helping them make decisions that protect their physical and emotional health. I prescribe birth control, but do not make abortion referrals, although none of my patients has ever sought an abortion. As a nurse practitioner, I am responsible for protecting and improving the health of my patients - this is what I consider medical care. In most cases, abortion does not fit the definition of medical care. Not only does it not protect or improve the health of a patient, but it terminates the life of another human being. This is not medicine. This is not a constitutional right - women in the US have many choices and access to inexpensive birth control to prevent unwanted pregnancies (including abstinence, but this is another topic). I work at a federally funded health care center that cares for low (or no) income patients without insurance, and we find ways to help patients get what they need. I think it is time for women in the US to take responsibility for protecting their reproductive health in ways other than abortion.
02/07/10 @ 23:07
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Comment from: kirsgram [Member] Email
There was nothing wrong with that ad!!! Because of all the hype I expected something truly horrible. You people need to get a life and quit yer bitchin!!!!
02/08/10 @ 17:07
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Comment from: fireloco [Member] Email
Seriously, if you are for choice, then let people have the choice to say what they want to say! I think Tim Tebows mother is an inspiration! George Washington saidit best. "I may not agree with what you say, but i will defend to the death your right to say it!
02/08/10 @ 19:02
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Comment from: delanelevy [Member] Email
I'm a product of rape. My mother already had 4 children and couldn't afford anymore either, in1965. Growing up, I felt normal, I didnt know we were poor. I am a happy educated mother of three kids, married to an educated man for 21 years. He loves me!..and he adores that I gave up my env engineering career to raise our children. I wish all women had what I have, a man who loves God loves his wife and loves his family. I only came to this site to celebrate with you LIFE..of all. Thank you for letting me share, and may you all experience JOY unspeakable and be full of love.
02/08/10 @ 19:41
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Comment from: emma quigley [Member] Email
Erin, You're train of thought doesn't make sense. You sound very defensive of something you are blowing all out of proportion. I think you should take a deep breath and think about what you are saying. You are confusing all sorts of issues and lumping them all together. Sounds like you're very fearful.

The ad was very successful. Your response puts NOW in a very poor light. If you were so confident in your stand, you probably would have done better by not responding at all.

I think you're time is up. Americans have had enough of the lies and harassments by groups like NOW that are really wrong in their basic principles.

NOW is so blinded that you cannot even come to a place of agreement that a woman who was so close to losing the life of her child only to see years later what a wonderful athlete and role model he has become was a life worth saving. By protesting, you make yourselves look like murderers.
02/08/10 @ 20:14
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Comment from: johnston34769 [Member] Email
After seeing the controversial Tim Tebow ad, we are more convinced than ever that your organization is not simply pro-choice, but anti-life. If you were really really pro-choice, then you would have celebrated Mrs. Tebow's choice to keep her baby! How were you, or any human being, threatened by that ad? You have made yourselves look like a bunch of blithering idiots who are bent on killing as many unborn babies as possible! That's what it looks like to us and a whole lot of others. You are definately not pro-choice!
02/09/10 @ 21:58
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Comment from: emma quigley [Member] Email
Sounds like a lot of people are turning against the NOW stance on abortion. You have all gone way too far. As a result women are paying the price, children are paying the price, our country is paying the price!

30-50 million children's lives have been lost - do you really not think we will be held accountable for that?
02/10/10 @ 11:45
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Comment from: feminism=sexism [Member] Email
If women don't want to have a child do not have sexual relations its that simple. If you do not want to get raped get a CCW and protect yourself. CCW= concealed carry weapon permit. When childbirth could kill a mother doctors performed an abortion before Roe v Wade. Women want to be able to cop out to their mistakes. You shouldn't be able to kill an unborn child no matter the stage if its not meant to be you'll have a miscarriage. Murder is murder. Pro-choice =Pro-right to kill baby
03/05/10 @ 17:25
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